Judgement

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“Judge not lest ye be judged.”
We know this, we accept it as reasonable,
yet, how often do we judge others?

“Why can’t they be like we are,
perfect in every way?”
We judge panhandlers
saying, “Get a job!”
not knowing if they are capable
of walking, let alone working.

We judge alcoholics
without knowing
if they can sleep
without drinking themselves
into a stupor.

We judge drug addicts
without knowing
if they suffer from chronic pain;
drugs, their only means
of finding relief.

We judge others
based upon our personal standards;
without a hearing, magistrate or jury.
Columbus aimed for India,
but instead, found America
did he fail?

Walk in another’s shoes;
live another’s life.
Almost, to one
may be more than enough
to another.

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62 responses to “Judgement”

  1. […] Related Source: judgement […]

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    1. Thanks for reposting my poem “Judgement”. It is much appreciated. ~ Dennis

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    1. Thanks so much for reblogging my poem “Judgement”. It is very much appreciated. ~ Dennis

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  2. Reblogged this on Dawne Thoughts and commented:
    Judgement only hurts — it never helps. Too often we do not want to look deeper, to understand the pain of others, nor expose our own pain to be judged.
    Only we can make a difference.

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    1. Hi Vanessa, thanks so much for reblogging my poem “Judgement”. I agree, “it only hurts — it never helps.”

      I love your posts “Hurt” and “Lashing Out”. ~ Dennis

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  3. I completely agree and beautifully said.

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    1. Hi Beth, thanks for your kind words. I love the photographs of your house in California. How is it working out with your hobby of “underwater basketweaving?”

      Cheers,
      Dennis

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  4. Wow…I chide myself over this all the time. I swear i think it’s some type of genetic reaction. A fight or flight type of deal…auto matically sizing those up that we come in contact with. “Judging” if they are a threat or nuisance.

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    1. Patience and an open heart must be nurtured and trained. The people we view as enemies are just like us, they seek happiness and an end to sorrow. Perhaps, with love, we can help each others reach those goals.

      Blessings,
      Dennis

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  5. Reblogged this on scottishmomus and commented:
    So apt. So true.x

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    1. Thanks so much for reblogging my poem ‘Judgement” I reblogged your poem “Open Minds”. They go well together.

      Blessings,
      Dennis

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      1. They certainly do. :) Thank you.x

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  6. This is too apt to my most recent post not to reblog. Well said, sir.x

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    1. Tour poem “Open Minds” is beautifully written and expresses a beautiful sentiment.

      Blessings,
      Dennis

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  7. Reblogged this on Mind Chatter and commented:
    This is a subject of great import in my household and it should be in the world.

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    1. Thank you so much for reblogging my poem “Judgement”. It is much appreciated. ~ Denis

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  8. My Mom and I speak of this a lot as she feels she is very judgmental. Just last night we were talking of homeless people and cell phones, and she used the term ‘bum’ to describe a homeless person. I simply asked her to please not use that term as it was judgmental in a negative light on the person(s) of which she was speaking. I am not into extreme political correctness, but I know enough about if a certain reference is going to hurt someone’s feelings, and perhaps what little self-respect they have left. I think she sees improvement in herself, and I try to not be judgmental in what I think and say as well. Great piece, and if we could all just stop judging others, and live with love, well it would be peaceful wouldn’t it.

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    1. Thanks for your comment. We need judgement in order to make decisions, but it’s better to know the facts before making the judgement. I’ve questioned why people are on the streets. Before I met them, I probably had the same impressions as most people. Listening to their stories of childhood verbal, physical and sexual abuse, neglect, poor education, it is no wonder their self esteem is low and their opportunities are few. Some of them drink to forget tragedies in their lives, either past or present. What they need is an ear to listen, an open heart that doesn’t judge and a helping hand. They may not be with us much longer.

      I agree, “if we could all just stop judging others, and live with love,” it would be a more peaceful place.

      Blessings,
      Dennis

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      1. Thanks for your comments. Yes, at times we do need to make judgments, like when someone is asking for money in the parking lot. But, we need to be aware of all possibilities and have an open heart. I have just been out of the milieu due to waiting for a disability decision, but I have seen so much hate, judgment, and just pain that I don’t think was a prevalent when I was a paralegal in 2007. The world seems to have just speeded up destroying each other and the earth.
        Peace

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  9. You do a great job relating your “hands on” experiences. Love your diversity in writing and artwork.

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    1. Thanks, as always, for your encouragement and support. ~ Dennis

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  10. Reblogged this on Stop the Stigma! and commented:
    It’s so easy to judge, to assume to stick a label on “different” people and try to separate “them” from “us”. Are they that different? How would you act on their bad luck with the means they have? Walk a mile is someone’s shoes and get a feel of what “their” life is. This poem says it so beautifully. Namaste, Cheryl-Lynn

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    1. Hi Cheryl, Thanks so much for reblogging my poem. It is much appreciated. ~ Dennis

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      1. You’re very welcome, it tells it like it is but so much nicer than I could. Namaste, Cheryl-Lynn

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  11. Very insightful and so well said:) I think there are some who also judge but are projecting their fear of getting that low in life, it scares them

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    1. Yes, I agree. Although we need to judge right from wrong in our daily lives, we should be judging situations not people. If we are upset by homelessness, we should work to end homelessness, not take out our fear and anger at those people who are the most vulnerable in society. ~ Dennis

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      1. Totally agree…displaced anger and cruel comments are not helping anyone. Love the “real” life stories you share. It’s easy to get attached to these people.

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    This is so beautiful, and so recognizable.
    You said what I couldn’t say in such a touching way

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    1. Thanks, Aphrodite, from your gravatar you sound like a fascinating person. ~ Dennis

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    1. Thanks so much for reblogging my poem “Judgement”. It is much appreciated. ~ Dennis

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  14. Hi Dennis,
    Judgement has been an obsession of mine since I was a kid. The fear of it, the anger that comes from it, the cages it puts one in, and yet I recently read something that more truly reflects where I’m at now with this obsession. “When we understand judgement as a natural, God-given gift that we can use in order to answer our highest calling, it takes on an entirely new meaning.” These words continue to guide me in the journey. Thank you for your poem, Dennis and the gentle reminders that lie within your words. Light and love.

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    1. I agree completely, as you said in your blog, “Time to take responsibility for my well-being and make it my first and foremost priority.” There is no point worrying about what others may or may not think, what happened in the past or what may happen in the future. If we clear our minds of this debris, we can then make judgements “to answer our highest calling”. ~ Dennis

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    Wow like your poem!

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    1. Thanks, Chris.

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    Reblogged this on Keptmeprisoner.

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    1. Thanks, Chris, for reblogging my poem “Judgement”. ~ Dennis

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  17. So true Dennis and something I have tried to ponder often and apply to my daily life.
    Some times because, “been there, done that”,and even if I haven’t. “who am I to judge”? I commend you for your mission, and offer you peace and health each day.
    Blessings,
    teri.

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    1. Thanks for your kind words. I love your poem “grey hairs”. I can certainly identify with the theme. I am an old hippy from the sixties as well.

      Peace,
      Dennis

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      1. Peace baby ;)

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  18. Welcome to WWWW. We look forward to more of your poetry.

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    1. The title of your blog drew me in. Thanks for your kind welcome. Poetry has now taken a back seat to my primary interest of documenting conversations with the homeless on gottafindahome.wordpress.com. I hope to turn that into a book by December.

      Cheers,
      Dennis

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  19. This is outstanding! Ann

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    1. I am honored by your comments, Ann. I viewed your published books on Amazon and noted that three of the four are rated “Best of the Month”. Congratulations! I have downloaded “Honeysuckle Memories” and can’t wait to start reading it. ~ Dennis

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  20. great poem and so true. there’s always a reason behind everything we do. we only have to understand, be open and not to rush in giving our verdict. we have to see past what our eyes can see and look at a bigger and clearer picture.

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    1. There is great wisdom in your comment and in your blog. I hope that the man of your dreams comes along soon. You deserve someone very special. ~ Dennis

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  21. Your poem contains many wise (and what should be, but usually aren’t) obvious sentiments. Thanks for a reminder to be kinder.

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    1. Hi Mary Barbara, this poem is a reminder to all of us, including myself. I start the morning with the best of intentions, then catch myself in talk, or action, that I would describe as less that Buddha-like. I climb back on the path and try again.

      Many of my observations come from conversations with homeless friends who are often the target of bigots.

      Namaste,
      Dennis

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    This is rather great, Dennis. I am new to this blogging thing. So I have been searching for the perfect person to give my first comment to. This won me over. Truly great stuff. A poem after my own heart. Thanks for sharing. Looking forward to reading the rest of your work.

    Peace and Love,
    B.

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    1. I am humbled and honored to receive your first comment. Thanks so much for your kind words. ~ Dennis

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  23. Well said. I read several of your poems and appreciate your wordsmithing. Thanks for following my blog. I welcome your poetic comments. Take care, BTG

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    1. From one old fart to another, thanks for your encouragement and support. It is much appreciated. ~ Dennis

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      1. Thanks Dennis. BTG

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  24. Thank you very much. That was very beautiful and very true.

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    1. Hi Leah, thanks very much for your encouragement and support. I enjoyed your post, “Thoughts on Raising Kids from Someone who has no Kids” Many of my homeless friends, in childhood, were abused physically and sexually. It scarred them for life. Giving children love and guidance is the most important condition to ensure that they become responsible, compassionate adults.

      Blessings,
      Dennis

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  25. I feel a reblog coming on. LOVE IT! Smiles

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    1. Thanks so much, Cheryl. ~ Dennis

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  26. I love this! Thank you for sharing your heart with us.

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    1. Thanks so much, Skye. We are all the same, we seek happiness and an end to suffering. If we could see all people as family members, instead of “others”, the world would be a happier place.

      Blessings,
      Dennis

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      1. Amen!!

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